Anger issues, HELP ME PLZ?

I don't really think that this is about anger management. He is a controlling person. Of course, you are frustrated. Who wouldn't be when they are unhappy in their own home? You two need to sit down and discuss what this is really about. He always has to have the upper hand - is he angry about something or just over the edge weird? He needs to consider that you have feelings and needs too. You should be able to do things your way and a loving person will accommodate you even if they don't always want to. A perfect example is your dog. He may think that the sweater is silly, but a loving person will put the sweater on and chalk it up to love. I hope that you can work things out on your own, or maybe get counseling. Good luck to you both.